Dating Someone More Attractive Than You Good or Bad Idea? I dated a girl for a long time who would constantly tell me how good looking I was and how she wondered why I chose her since she didn't think she was attractive. If you tend to be insecure about your own attractiveness, have a jealous streak, or don’t feel confident that you are a great package with many strengths, dating someone who is much more attractive is a terrible idea and will result in anxiety, self-sabotage, and gobs of tension in your relationship.
Reasons Not to Date an Attractive, Masculine Man. I had plenty of chances to pursue others when we dated. Good-looking men are assumed to have better personalities, more rewarding careers, and more fulfilling life experiences Dion et al. 1972; Griffin and Langlois, 2006, assumptions which may be accurate given our positive bias toward attractive individuals.
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